But it is perfectly common to have fantasies about sexual acts one has no intention of carrying out in reality. Many people are disturbed by their fantasies the images can be embarrassing, repugnant, even unacceptably shocking. I have had obsessive thoughts of all kinds in the past.
It does disturb me that I think like this and I can get obsessively worried about it. I have no desire to change gender and it is more like watching a sexy scene for me – I don’t think I actually want to carry out the fantasy. I am a straight man but sometimes I get turned on at the thought of being a woman performing a sex act with a man.
